Lately, I thought about what if I died! I don't want to leave this as part of my legacy. I thought about a safe deposit box, but that can be discovered and open in probate. Been thinking about a secret compartment in the wall in the garage,but too Stephen King!

I would appreciate any suggestion?
Tong

I have a similar dilemma. I don't have your kinda stuff....butt..

I have lots of ASP XXX pics, many varied dil-dos, case of Trojans, whips, chains, handcuffs, strap-ons, XXX, adinfinitum ASP stuff @ home !!

I thought about a really good & secure locking safe in my home ????

If I think about that prospect of dying & someone finding everything, too much, I'll just get SO DAMN paranoid & go completely SKIT-ZO !!

Sweet Caroline ~:~) XXOO
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Although I don't keep much around, It would be good to know if anybody out here is successful in "hiding" certain items/things.

I kinda like the scan and burn it on CDR, but does anybody know how to password protect a directory or a whole CDR???

booger

If you just can't toss it out, best to use a secret compartment in the garage or something like that. The garage is an excellent place to hide things. Forget anything electronic.

As for someone seeing them when you die, I rather like the idea someone finding something after I'm gone. Kinda spices up your legacy.

A couple of comments though...

My feeling is that I don't care if anybody finds things after I am dead...because I am dead. I don't exist anymore. Now those can go off on some existential philisophical treatise now is they want.

Second, for those who hide stuff at work. Remember, you don't have any rights to privacy at work. If you get layoffed and walked, depending on the company, but you can be sure to be searched and the stuff you walk out with searched as well. Now consider that aspect, since being fired is not a great way to start a day as it is.

If they give you trouble about not supplying home contact info, tell them you are going through a very difficult divorce and you in the process of moving anyway. I gave them an office phone/address and showed them my ID. That's what I did and they accepted it.

Times are so tough right now, I bet you can shop around and will find a place that won't ask for any ID at all, especially if you offer to pay a year up-front. I'm guessing a small locker - closet sized - in a non-prime location might only cost $40/mo. Not a high price for peace of mind.

I would suspect that if you died, they wouldn't get able to get in touch with you or your family and your stuff would be sold or thrown away after you don't pay for a few months.

shyboy

That stuff just isn't the same scanned. Got to face facts. If you keep it in the house, you're taking a chance. You can always seal a box, put the name of trusted friend on it, and label it "personal". But you never know if it will be opened.

Assuming your obsession doesn't require you to have the stuff always at hand, renting a locker is a good choice.

You can rent a PO box for 20 to 30 bucks a year. Check it once a month and leave your stuff in it, addressed to you. USPS will ask you for a physical address, but they won't verify it. They may check your license. Pay in cash.

They won't mail you a renewal notice, they'll just drop a notice in your box. If you don't pay up in time, they'll change the lock and destroy your stuff.

BIG WARNING: Mailing certain kinds of porn is a serious federal crime!! Don't put anything in the box that could possibly be illegal!!!