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nikk (84 posts) Click to send private message to nikk Click to check IP address of the poster
27-Apr-01, 07:45 PM (PDT)
"how many providers really enjoy their work?"
In light of reen posts onthe general board, I hav a hard ime believing that a provider could be so full of ate towards her clients. I wonder how many of you honestly` enjoy your work, not just the sex, but the whole package (lol). If you were really that unhappy, would the amount of $$$ you make be enough to keep you in the biz?
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Ms_Magic (482 posts) Click to send private message to Ms_Magic Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
27-Apr-01, 10:32 PM (PDT)
1. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
It's definitely the whole package that matters. You have to take the good with the bad (as in any job) and if the good doesn't outweigh the bad, the money just ain't worth it. Of course, I can say that because I have options and could probably have a full-time desk job in a week if I wanted to.

Michelle
Michelle's Magic

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Nicole_Farallon (183 posts) Click to send private message to Nicole_Farallon Click to check IP address of the poster
28-Apr-01, 10:37 AM (PDT)
2. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
I enjoy it!! Pretty much the whole package. I seem to attract nice clients for which I am grateful. I am going to go back to school in the fall, so I can excercise my brain a little more!! But, I definately like what I am doing now. I missed it when I took my hiatus.
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DarkKitty (644 posts) Click to send private message to DarkKitty Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 00:19 AM (PDT)
6. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
Well, I certainly enjoy enjoying you enjoy your work!!! ;)

Peace.....

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Nicole_Farallon (183 posts) Click to send private message to Nicole_Farallon Click to check IP address of the poster
28-Apr-01, 10:38 AM (PDT)
3. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
Oh, I think that the venom filled posts on the General Board were from one provider in particular. Three guesses who that is.
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TheGreek (336 posts) Click to send private message to TheGreek Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
28-Apr-01, 12:14 PM (PDT)
4. "The interesting thing..."
is that, if we are talking about the same person, she may present herself as someone who hates her clients, but that isn't a true reflection of her attitude. Much of her reputation on this board is due to a LOT of unprovoked baiting and harassment she got here.
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Niqui (58 posts) Click to EMail Niqui Click to send private message to Niqui Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
28-Apr-01, 02:30 PM (PDT)
5. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
I almost always love doing this! It is soooooo much fun to meet a new person (usually in a public place for a drink, lunch, etc.) Talk with them and get to know them a little... do a little flirting and then move on if the mood is right... I meet so many interesting people, all with different backgrounds and stories. I also like finding out what they like and then providing an experience for them they may not ordinarily get to live out. It's hard to talk in too much detail in this public forum... But, I actually do like what I do, and yes I mean the WHOLE package!

Niqui

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Zoe (23 posts) Click to send private message to Zoe Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 09:24 PM (PDT)
7. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
I know I really love my job. I get to live my own fantasy by doing this. I guess I am just addicted to the feeling.
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dox (31 posts) Click to send private message to dox Click to check IP address of the poster
30-Apr-01, 00:03 AM (PDT)
12. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
care to share your fantasies with us? i'm not trying to get some free cybersex here, just curious when you used the word "feeling". from other threads it's obvious that many of us hobbyists are living out certain fantasies when we see a provider, but i'm somewhat surprised to hear this from a provider. can you elaborate more on this feeling?

thanks,

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Zoe (23 posts) Click to send private message to Zoe Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
02-May-01, 01:33 PM (PDT)
17. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
Well, now I am telling secrets...but ok. It gets me all worked up to get ready knowing a man is on his way over. It's on my mind while I put on my makeup, do my hair, dress up. I think many women have this fantasy. The whole hooker thing. I can do things sexually without regret, cut loose, and the fact that I am recieving money just completes the fantasy. Every bit of it turns me on, and thats why I do it. It fullfills me sexually too. In a way no one man can. So why not have fun and live your own fantasy? Hope that answers your question.
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sfmike33 (36 posts) Click to send private message to sfmike33 Click to check IP address of the poster
30-Apr-01, 12:21 PM (PDT)
16. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
which zoe is this ? sf zoe ?
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Zoe (23 posts) Click to send private message to Zoe Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
02-May-01, 01:35 PM (PDT)
18. "RE: how many providers really enjoy their work?"
Nope, I am based in Reno but travel. I worked at the Mustang ranch, Old bridge, Kitty's, and Kit Kat. I have only been an independant for about 3/4 mo. now
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dilligaf (577 posts) Click to send private message to dilligaf Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 10:49 PM (PDT)
8. "In my case....."
I just like being able to shop at Nordy's!!!!


OK then..*put's on serious face...takes it off again coz it just doesn't work for her!*


I take it on a client by client basis. To me it is just like any other job where you have your good and bad days and have to 'deal' with people that can be unpleasant at times.

The time that I entered this profession and my subsequent returns to it have all been for one purpose only - the money and the (at times) relative ease and convienience in earning it.

However, I do not approach my work as some kind of 'chore' to suffer through. I have met some wonderful people and some not so wonderful people, but even my worst experiences I view as 'character building' (hehehe!) and never feel 'jaded' in any way towards men.

Every once in a while I'll have a client that will make me think "why the fuck am I doing this?" (even though I already know the answer ) and then I'll get a client who is just normal, nice and sweet and will put me back in the right frame of mind again, so to speak.



Dilly

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sson_of_sam (240 posts) Click to EMail sson_of_sam Click to send private message to sson_of_sam Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 11:03 PM (PDT)
9. "RE: In my case....."
Dilly,

Out of curiosity or nosiness, may I ask how often you have made your "subsequent returns" to the profession? Could I also ask what prompted the prior retirements?

Thanks.

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dilligaf (577 posts) Click to send private message to dilligaf Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 11:19 PM (PDT)
10. "RE: In my case....."
>Dilly,
>
>Out of curiosity or nosiness, may
>I ask how often you
>have made your "subsequent returns"
>to the profession? Could
>I also ask what prompted
>the prior retirements?
>
>Thanks.


I usually work when I am globetrotting as the normal work options can be rather slim. (By this I mean visa's etc.) With this job, it doesn't matter where I am, I can always make the money I want to. I stop when I get home and just shift back into the 'real world' again. Sometimes I've gone 3 or 4 years without 'working' even when times were a little hard dollar wise. Also, it never really occured to me to work at home until the year prior to resuming my travels - I didn't want to wait and save for a few years before heading off again.


Dilly


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sson_of_sam (240 posts) Click to EMail sson_of_sam Click to send private message to sson_of_sam Click to check IP address of the poster
29-Apr-01, 11:30 PM (PDT)
11. "Thanks Dilly! EOM"
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KellyDD (136 posts) Click to send private message to KellyDD Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
30-Apr-01, 01:13 AM (PDT)
13. "RE: Thanks Dilly! EOM"
I like Dilly. But when the feeing is there I do enjoy it!!!
It takes 2 to do the dance. Tango that is ....Left right, right left, down up , up down . OHHH We got the it.
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FreeWillyDave (413 posts) Click to send private message to FreeWillyDave Click to view user profile Click to check IP address of the poster
30-Apr-01, 08:36 AM (PDT)
14. "RE: In my case....."
Dilly,

I like travelling too. But even in the more affluent european countries, wouldn't you get paid relatively less than here in the bay area? Do you find that American clientele are better or worse than guys from other countries?

I have to admit to coming down with a slight case of MDS--hey, if you're going to work, maybe the right guy can help you enjoy it, too?!?

Please, don't ROTFLMAO too much!!!

FWD

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nikk (84 posts) Click to EMail nikk Click to send private message to nikk Click to check IP address of the poster
30-Apr-01, 12:20 PM (PDT)
15. "RE: In my case....."
Dilligaf,
do you advertise or are most of your clients word of mouth? feel free to email me....
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