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agirl* (1 posts) 02-May-01, 07:57 AM (PDT) "what's a girl to do?" if a girl falls in love with a client who seems to be content with the client/provider relationship, what should she do: tell him her feelings? stop seeing him? continue client/provider relationship? other?   Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

RE: what's a girl to do?, pokekingmon, 08:14 AM, 02-May-01, (1) RE: what's a girl to do?, veteran, 08:20 AM, 02-May-01, (2) RE: what's a girl to do?, mermaid, 08:22 AM, 02-May-01, (3) RE: what's a girl to do?, a client*, 10:50 AM, 02-May-01, (7) RE: what's a girl to do?, BIGGUY56, 09:51 AM, 02-May-01, (4) RE: what's a girl to do?, Strong, 10:01 AM, 02-May-01, (5) A Little Story for You, Claude_Balls*, 10:36 AM, 02-May-01, (6)

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pokekingmon (181 posts) 02-May-01, 08:14 AM (PDT) 1. "RE: what's a girl to do?" tough question. 1. is he married? 2. how long has he been seeing you? 3. are you his only provider? 4. has the relationship been always on the clock? (no dinner and a movie etc) 5. would you quit if he asked you to? answer these questions so that we can go from there. Pokekingmon   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

veteran (257 posts) 02-May-01, 08:20 AM (PDT) 2. "RE: what's a girl to do?" Is he married? If not, you could try not charging him. So many guys have posted on these boards that if a woman keeps charging a guy for sex then she couldn't possibly love him. I think you have to go slowly with him since so many guys go to providers because they want sex without any emotional involvement.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

mermaid (15 posts) 02-May-01, 08:22 AM (PDT) 3. "RE: what's a girl to do?" Keep it to your self. He wants someone to play with, not love, or he may love the IDEA of loving you, but in the end, you'll be the one who gets burned.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

a client* (1 posts) 02-May-01, 10:50 AM (PDT) 7. "RE: what's a girl to do?" I have to agree with MS. mermaid. The chance of provider/client love relationship is less than 1%, and it is just too hard to go through the route. I would suggest you be nice to him and want and see how he think about you. It is a bad idea to tell him about your feeling. Unfortunately, even in the modern world, women still have to wait for men to take the first approach. If you are too aggressive, men will think you are desperate.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

BIGGUY56 (37 posts) 02-May-01, 09:51 AM (PDT) 4. "RE: what's a girl to do?" AG: If he's married set your feelings aside(I know, easy for me to say) or stop seeing him. If he's single I suggest you invite him out for a casual "off the clock" date and see where it goes from there. I wouldn't spring an "I'm in love with you" on him as it may scare him away. Good luck with your plight. BG56   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Strong (1000 posts) 02-May-01, 10:01 AM (PDT) 5. "RE: what's a girl to do?" I agree with BigGuy.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Claude_Balls* (11 posts) 02-May-01, 10:36 AM (PDT) 6. "A Little Story for You" When I started this "hobby" a couple of years back the first girls I saw was named Alexis (also went by Raquel) in Berkeley. Most anyone who saw here will remember her. She wasn't a GFE, she was far better than that in nearly everyway. I admit she spoiled me and we really hit it off, though I never would have considered going out with her away from "the job". In @Nov.99 she went to Mexico with a client who she fell in love with. He talked her out of the business, and generally messed with her head, which in all likelihood was prime to be messed with. Turns out the guy was married (which he hadn't told her) and refused to get a divorce. Nice double standard. Well in talking to one of her friends, she's really a mess now. Miserable and hurting for money, while she pines for this guy to get a divorce. Worse yet from my selfish standpoint she's out of the business. I think what I'm trying to say is that if your looking for love find it away from your profession, which may be a good rule in general. Life can be complicated enough without the encumberments that this "hobby" brings with it. Mr.Balls   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

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